Dave, it sounds like you have made up your mind. I just wanted you to know what can and does happen on a daily basis.
I wish you the best of luck and hope it works out well.
I would be in an even worse bind than I am in now if it were not for the help I am receiving from my Mother.
The thing is we CANNOT work together and have never been able to. When my father passed away we tried but it just did not work out. We see the world differently and the difference between her and my Father is that although my Father and I also saw the world differently we had a mutual respect for each others opinions. Unfortunately my Mother and I do not have that type of relationship. Thank goodness we have her as she is the last remaining grandparent and watching her and my little one together brings tears to my eyes in a happy way.